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Jul 25, 2024
Narcissism
We all have a bit of narcissism in us. Sometimes, we focus on our own needs, wants, and views, often putting ourselves at the center of...
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Jul 25, 2024
Supper
Last night, I decided to cook a comforting dinner of meatloaf, mashed potatoes, stuffing, creamed corn, and cornbread—one of Gramma's...
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Jul 23, 2024
Intervention
I just watched Midnight Sun on Netflix at 4 AM, a film about a girl with a rare disease called XP. I haven't cried this hard during a...
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Jul 22, 2024
Scenic Artist
I applied for a Scenic Artist position at La Jolla Playhouse, where I’m currently working, and my hopes soared when I saw the listing. I...
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Jul 22, 2024
Secrets
Last night at La Jolla Playhouse, I caught Deracho with my sister and Gabe. The show was intriguing, but the ending really hit home for...
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Jul 22, 2024
No matter what
No matter what challenges people face or how much someone can relate, or what therapy we go to it's essential to recognize that only you...
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Jul 21, 2024
Sex Workers
People often talk badly about strippers and sex workers, spreading negative stereotypes about what they do. However, it's important to...
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Jul 20, 2024
Tone
Explaining tone in emails and texts is really hard because you can't hear my voice or see my face, which often leads to...
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Jul 19, 2024
Magic
There was a boy A very strange, enchanted boy They say he wandered very far Very far, over land and sea A little shy and sad of eye But...
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Jul 18, 2024
Hmmmm
Yesterday, after my appointment with Leah, I plunged back into my book, combing through old documents, texts, and emails to see if there...
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Jul 16, 2024
Last Meeting
Today started out a little sad as it was my last meeting with Leah, my therapist for the past two years. She has been great, and I will...
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Jul 15, 2024
Velour
I was incredibly excited for today, knowing I was attending the La Jolla Playhouse breakfast for the new show "Velour: A Drag...
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Jul 15, 2024
Anti-Hero
I deeply connect with Taylor Swift's song "Anti-Hero." Like the lyrics, I often see myself as the problem, dealing with insecurities and...
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Jul 14, 2024
Indiana
Yesterday, I learned from my sister that my dad is leaving for Indiana today. That means my mom will snag his car, and suddenly, I have...
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Jul 12, 2024
IF
Kelley invited me over for a movie night to watch IF with the kids outside. She made popcorn and pops, and even came to pick me up since...
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Jul 12, 2024
Matthew Perry
I just finished reading Matthew Perry's book, "Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing," and I am really not a reader. However, I...
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Jul 12, 2024
The NeverEnding Story
I feel like the Nothing from "The NeverEnding Story" is taking over my life. It's like a dark void spreading everywhere, making...
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Jul 11, 2024
Come On
All I wish for is to feel good for just one day. My teeth and ribs are finally healing, but now my lower back has cramped up for the past...
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Jul 10, 2024
Really?
It's mind-boggling how my dad keeps sending me Facebook friend requests after everything that's happened. This is the same guy who...
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Jul 10, 2024
Group
Yesterday, I attended a new group meeting about being your best self, and it was a refreshing change from the trauma group I've been in...
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