Forgetting

“Forgetting” is devaluing you. You’re not that important to the narcissist and they will constantly remind you of this. “I forgot to call you,” no, you didn’t. You deliberately didn’t call and then used, “I forgot” in an attempt to make me feel uncared for. People who care about you remember to communicate. They remember special occasions; they remember to pick you up from work etc. People who are actually interested in you do not “forget.”

Keep in mind, the typical narc has several other supply sources to entertain, and he cannot possibly remember everything about everyone. They don’t care to remember, either.

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