Refuse

My mom told me she might need me to help boy-sit this afternoon so that she could take my dad to the eye doctor as he didn’t think he could drive himself home, as he hardly drives My father and I have not spoken in nearly a year and a half after being stuck taking care of them for over a year. On anything that has to do with him to help him I do not want to do. I said “he needs how to learn how to use Uber” then my mom replied “ Well he lets me use his car“ since my car had been repossessed since March I’ve been using my mom‘s car, so I’m sure that was a dig at me to be honest none of it makes sense since my dad is a complete douche, when my mom asked for a divorce, he left my mom with absolutely no money, paid very little child support, and has refused to say her name for over 35 years. I guess because he’s dying and my mom used to be a nurse. He needs her to take care of his medical situations. As he has no one here in California. Perhaps we should all learn to forgive people, but after that much abuse, neglect, and overall stupidity, it makes me sick to think that she would do anything to help him.

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