Jan 19, 20231 min read

What is the sad truth about being the victim of a narcissist?

For me no longer sad because I have accepted it all for far too long now. Some of the realities are the following:

1. A complete fake relationship with someone who was simply a ghost throughout the relationship. All those years and I still know nothing about the real identity of this person. Surreal but very true.

2. Sleeping with the enemy for far too long.

3. Loving a person who is unable to love anyone

4. My love was reciprocated with a unique type of hatred

5. The level of deceit is mind blowing. Today all makes sense because the evil one makes sure that he feeds narcissists his own information.

6. Working so hard for a fake relationship that was doomed from day one.

7. Loads of lessons learnt. I realized I knew pretty much nothing about evil behavior.

8. The worst days of my life were spent trying to survive the beating. A unique beating from hell itself.

9. No one understands the victim. It will only be another victim that will be familiar with the behavior of a narcissist.

But the cherry on the cake is one. I grew stronger and wiser. God had my back every single minute of every single day I spent broken. Too broken to even want to